Three things you shouldn’t say to the one you love

In Every relationship there’s always ups and downs. You can’t expect everything to be perfectly fine, we humans aren’t perfect at all – it takes understanding and patience to build a great relationship wether friendship or intimate. 

Couples/lovers will fight and quarrel sometimes and then settle their differences afterwards. But when all of this fighting and quarreling happens you should be mindful of the words you use for your spouse. Some words should be uttered to the one you as it might damage such relationship. 

Here are (3) major words you shouldn’t say to your spouse out of anger.

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Three things you shouldn’t say to the one you love 

1. SHUT UP

Shut up tends to spill out in the middle of a fight or when a partner is upset or annoyed. But saying shut up is highly aggressive. Can you please be quiet? can deliver the same message in a calmer manner that doesn’t feel so violent.

2. YOU’RE NOT MY MOM/DAD

It’s common to say this when someone is feeling as if their partner is being too nurturing, overprotective. Their feelings will likely be hurt, especially if they have good intentions. Before you let those words slip out. try letting them know what you prefer they not do rather than making them feel like they’re coming on too strong.

3. YOU’RE PATHETIC

You should always avoid labeling your partner when you’re dissatisfied with his or her behavior. When we label a person, they get defensive right away. Stick to observations about their behavior instead. This way, you’re opening up a conversation around how they can change what they’re doing.

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There are many others words but this three are commonly spilled when you’re angry and as we’ve learnt it isn’t good to say.

Let’s try to keep up with this and keep our relationship in order… Thank you.